October 6, 2010 / 1:26AM 92 notes

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kiamatthews:

So there’s a thing I’ve been noticing. I thought it was just my (well-documented) terrible luck with men, but in recent chats with some ladies, I’ve gotten the idea that this thing is a real thing.

We’re at a point in our hetero social progress that it’s (mostly) accepted that both men and women…

This right here is my entire adult existence.

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  1. nina1186 reblogged this from kiamatthews and added:
    Ah! Sara! This girl
  2. sea-sick reblogged this from kiamatthews
  3. smarterthanme reblogged this from thatwhitebitch
  4. marynolamb reblogged this from kiamatthews and added:
    my entire adult existence.
  5. jesicamarie reblogged this from sade
  6. pasky said: I say BOTH men and women -players in general- are only sure of the casual nature of impending sex if they are the ones to initiate. If a tootandboot wants a repeat without explicit no strings, then you gotta assume they caught some feelings.
  7. danceswithwhitegirls reblogged this from sade
  8. aldoushuxtable reblogged this from thatwhitebitch and added:
    REBUTTAL: prouuudofyou. Word to Adina. Second: I can say with utter conviction and passion that your claim is basically...
  9. kwalsh said: Not totally the same, but I recently turned a guy’s invite to go over to his place after the 2nd date (I was really tired) and he texted me”im really glad you turned me down!” like saying no to sex right away made me more wifely or something. DUDES!
  10. thatwhitebitch reblogged this from kiamatthews
  11. raelynne said: so you get down, &then 5 minutes later when you’re ready to go again &the guy is all “whaaaa?” yeah…that happens. DTF! i also had an ex tell me that i liked sex too much and was thus suspicious, despite that (at the time) that ex was The First.
  12. tessastrain said: I think that must be it, because I’ve had this exact same problem. One guy and I did repeat eventually, but it was months after the first time, so I think his only reservation was that he thought I wanted something serious.
  13. snapsforsantoro reblogged this from kiamatthews and added:
    think from an evolutionary perspective,...totally makes sense for guys to be weird about...
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